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| Laws of Sex & Romance | Finding Love |
This is important. Engrave it in your brain and refer to it in a crisis. Never marry anyone that isn't your best friend, and never be the kind of person that could ever betray their best friend's trust.
Realize that most relationship problems are really communication problems. The most efficient way to heal many marriage problems is to improve the quality of your communication.
You know the book Men are from Mars? Please tattoo this across your forehead backwards so you can see it every morning in the bathroom mirror... "READING that book doesn't work!" PRACTICING what's in it does.
PRACTICE chapters 6, 8 & 10 if your loved one is a masculine personality... chapters 7, 8 & 10 if your loved one is feminine. PRACTICE on the butcher, the baker, the candlestick maker, and the kid down the street. Think about it, you wouldn't read a french-english dictionary, lay it down and move to France! You'd go to the trouble to learn how to speak their language. Its just like learning how to drive a standard, you know you've learned it when you do it without thinking about it.
Since "love" in your language is confusing, and the confused mind always says "no thanks", and "love" in their language feels like legal cocaine... you can imagine the difference. Pssst... it's usually better than you have imagined it.
| Getting Love | Keeping Love | Getting Over It |
| But what if they're leaving and nothing is sure? |
Quit Suffering Being Stood Up!
"The mind, once stretched by an empowering idea,
can never fully shrink to its original dimensions."
- Oliver Wendell Holmes, paraphrased
Every single one of the the three hundred plus pages of this site was built specifically to draw you here to see this one page. Look. See for yourself what I consider so important I'd go to such lengths to share it.
Thank you for sharing this page with your friends.
Your thoughts and feelings are important to me.
Talk to me.